What is it that makes a happy family?

For a common person, family is everything to him.Without a family,Life gets colorless.Having and ideal family is simply like heaven on earth.But what is that which makes a true and happy family?

A family is not just a group of people who are genetically related.Generally,when we think what is a family,we think it is a group consisting of parents rearing their children. Isn't it? But a family is not just about few people living together in a same house who are physically present with each other. A family is a group of people who are emotionally and spiritually connected with each other.They are united by their mind and soul.Members together don't form a happy family. It is the love ,care ,  understanding, respect towards each other that makes a happy family. Your physical presence is not necessary for making the family complete.It is your emotional connection and trust between each other that completes the family.

Family teaches us how to live together.Staying together creates a protective and safe atmosphere for all members.It ensures safety of everyone. Even very difficult time passes with ease when we are together.In difficult situations, when nobody stands with us,when we lose hope,it's our family who still support us and inspire us to keep moving.When you have family's support,you don't need to worry for anything,everything will turn for you.Family's support is enough to keep you motivated to keep going.

Many times we see families separating due to family feud or quarrel.There might be many reasons or circumstances due to which such thing occurs.But the simplest reason is misunderstanding and lack of trust.Quarrels or feuds are common to occur in family.We generally quarrel with the one whom we love the most.If you understand your partner very well and trust each other,then any feud whether big or small gets cooled with time.But if it doesn't, that means there is lack of trust between each others. In such relations,feuds are quite frequent.Therefore, even though they are living together,they do not understand each other very well.This is not good for an ideal and true family.

Nowadays,we see young adults do not want to live with their parents.When their parents grow older,they see them as a burden whom you have to care or look after a lot.They leave them alone or take them to old age home.People forget that their parents where the one who raised them.And now when the time comes to take care of them , people just exclude them from their family thinking that they don't earn so they are useless and just a burden. They might have become physically weak, but their experience and wisdom is still valuable for everyone in the family.It's like a boon to have a mature and experienced person in the family.They never let their family break or separate in any condition and maintain harmony in the family.They act like a shield which protects the family members from any difficulty or problem using their experience and wisdom.Family is incomplete without them. Never leave them.You will be more happier when you are together.

Love your family and never leave them.The real happiness come when you all are together.

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